Wednesday, February 27, 2013

A man, Those Men

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
- Oprah Winfrey.

Friday, February 1, 2013


Hey peeps..look like it have been weeks since i posted something into this little world of mine . So, how have u all been ? looking great huh ... maybe some are being down.
Everyone would have feel something different through their own life u know, like happy, sad ,excited , sky-lift etc. remeber we won't be n the top everytime as we ever heard a wise man saying " world goes round , sometimes we are high above sometimes we are down there" .
Yes we must bear with it though when thing get unbearable's just like the END of it .

It's not like I have not try but I am done.

I’m done with being treated like crap.

I’m done with people who don’t care.

I’m done with being second best,

second loved,

second considered in everything.

I’m done with being walked all over.

I’m done with being angry,

I’m done with the coldness,

I’m done with her,

and him,

and everyone.

I’m done with not having anything to call my own.

I’m done with depending on people just to live.

I’m done with living in general.

I’m done with the anxiety,

I’m done with the stress,

I’m done with the tightness in my shoulders, the way my back feels like it could break any moment.

I’m done with being left and abandoned.

I’m done with being doubted,

I’m done with being weak,

I’m done with longing and never getting.

I’m done.

I’m 200% fucking done.